《寒夜有懷》

夜寒漏永千門靜，破夢鐘聲度花影。

夢想回思憶最真，那堪夢短難常親。

兀坐誰教夢更添，起步修廊風動簾。

可憐兩地隔吳越，此情惟付天邊月。

暗帘竹下月色洒，寂吟前世雍正集，
此景霎时叹故人，心无故人往日情。

那永远的26日-盼望着《五年來的早晨 》的到来

給十五歲的你

《天使為甚麼能夠飛》

你发现了吗？
你的手机里面号码越来越多，
可以拨通的却越来越少。
某些时候，
你拨通了，
电话那头却响起：“您拨打的用户已停机”。
然后你发现，
人与人的关系就像那几串数字，

可以深刻记起，

也可以随时被遗忘了……

铁盒 Locked Heart

忙碌是一种幸福，
让我们没时间体会痛苦；
奔波是一种快乐，
让我们真实的感受生活；
疲惫是一种享受，
让我们无暇空虚。

A very high degree of wisdom.
i am far from that mental freedom.
Seeking the extraordinary in the ordinary HE,SHE,IT.

凡事包容，bears all things,
凡事相信，believes all things,
凡事盼望， hopes all things,
凡事忍耐。 endures all things.
(林前13章7節) 1 Corinthians 13:7


Sleeping 10 hours and woke up in late morning.
The feeling was a Wow, life is so blissful.
This's my 1st Saturday that could get up late.
Finished my O&G class for this semester,
i know there're still tremendously alot for me to learn.
The attitude of picking bone in egg isn't my style.
So, retaining the knowledge in myself is my responsibility.
The great feeling was a little screwed up by some small house matter.
Living together,needs effort to practice the 4 verses of the above.
i hope there'll be more transparency as a part of the family.
i do want to enjoy more the H.O.M.E feeling,
i think everyone wants to,
so really hope no hard feeling among the M5.
It's a part of learning too.
Enjoy the remaining days in Moscow.
It will be a part of our memory
This life as a medical student
even in hell-ed HO life...
Love Home. Love Moscow.Love Life.

有人说：
女人，小时候有爸爸疼，长大了有老公疼，老了有儿子疼。
男人，小时候听妈妈的话，长大了听老婆的话，老了听女儿的话。

生活说话须要智慧。
不管怎样的多疲惫。
看到这张可爱照片。
心情都变漂亮起来。
放眼看美丽新世界，
重新要再出发咯~‎\(◕‿◕)/

p/s:下星期考眼科，眼睛和脑袋要争气啊！加油~

I want my life to be colourful ♥

When things in your life seem, almost too much to handle,
When 24 Hours in a day is not enough,
Remember the mayonnaise jar and 2 cups of coffee.

A professor stood before his philosophy class
and had some items in front of him.
When the class began, wordlessly,
He picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar
And proceeded to fill it with golf balls.

He then asked the students, if the jar was full.
They agreed that it was.

The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured
them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly.
The pebbles rolled into the open Areas between the golf balls.

He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.

The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar.
Of course, the sand filled up everything else.
He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous 'yes.'

The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively
filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.

'Now,' said the professor, as the laughter subsided,
'I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life.
The golf balls are the important things - family,
children, health, Friends, and Favorite passions –
Things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, Your life would still be full.

The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, house, and car.

The sand is everything else --The small stuff.

'If you put the sand into the jar first,' He continued,
there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls.
The same goes for life.

If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff,
You will never have room for the things that are important to you.

So...

Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness.
Play With your children.
Take time to get medical checkups.
Take your partner out to dinner.

There will always be time to clean the house and fix the disposal.

'Take care of the golf balls first --
The things that really matter.
Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.

One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee represented.

The professor smiled
'I'm glad you asked'.

It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem,
There’s always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend.'

每一个女孩

不管到了几岁

心中都有一份憧憬

只是埋藏得越来越深

微微随着秋季离开

真心话总是大冒险的

谢了的绿橙丹枫树

谢了的褐黄梧桐叶

你,感受那份寒意了吗…… =)

-续上则读后感。-

【 Marriage 】
「When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes..

Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?

I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn’t talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn’t love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn’t have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn’t want anything from me, but needed a month’s notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month’s time and she didn’t want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that every day for the month’s duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Jane about my wife’s divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.

My wife and I hadn’t had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don’t tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn’t looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn’t tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.

Suddenly it hit me… she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.

Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it’s time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn’t noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office…. jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind…I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won’t divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn’t value the details of our lives, not because we didn’t love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I’ll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.

That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - dead. My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push through with the divorce.
— At least, in the eyes of our son — I’m a loving husband...

The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves.

So find time to be your spouse’s friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!

Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.. ...」

做人，须经得起风雨；
学习，要耐得住寂寞；
恋爱，要经得起考验；
成长，要靠逐步积累；
成功，要受得了煎熬；
婚姻，要懂得维护；
幸福，要懂得珍惜；
烦恼，要学会忘记 ♥

童年回忆里

一年四季的节日中

特别钟爱圣诞节

每每这一天的到来

感觉深刻

是个彼此，祝福的日子。

还有妈妈的温馨“火鸡特大餐”

小时候就这样以为着

母鸡与火鸡是没差啊

哈哈哈哈哈哈

那棵从小到大，
妈妈倾爱的圣诞树

在爸爸反派声浪下
每年我们一起幻想它存在那角

深埋记忆里怀念它

也许追溯到她的儿时

那是遗憾的补偿

总的来说，是我想妈妈了
那份小康之家的欢与乐

圣诞节，你，
想你了。

上完妇产科

这五六个小时的课

附加昨夜是上课到晚上七点多到家

再极不适腰酸背痛

做功课加细读资料赶报告

一整天虽然好累

亲睹了个麟儿诞生

到这个有笑有泪的世界

大家喜悦地等待

她用嚎啕大哭来宣告着

“我哭着到来，希望用我的一生去感受而笑着离开”

一身湿滑滑白蓝色的肌肤

经爱心爆满的医护人员的细心

小王子超粉红的可爱至极

生命就是如此奥妙再让我多了一份体会

好久没有这样的心情

是开心的，有所领悟的。

生日只是年龄象征

发挥生命力才是年轻的正意。

让这短暂的一生留下精彩的寓言书

一切那么的美好因为乌云已过

纵然仍有许多小石头阻挡着前进，

但我愿意面对失败，

谢谢你一言惊醒梦中人

让我回首到底怎么来到这儿

希望你，能够昂首熬过去这艰难的实习日子

祝福你。

五点黄昏，

夕阳红霞折光下

一个人走在人往的大街上

顿然真的无虑一身轻

享受那份当个学生的快乐。

难过的时候猛吃东西不是没有道理，

因为胃和心的距离很近，

当你吃饱了的时候，

暖暖的胃会挤占心脏的位置，

这样心里就不会觉得那么冷清，

那么空落落。

【心理技巧】
1. 可以相信别人，但不可以指望别人；2. 不要拒绝善意，不要停止微笑；3. 错误可以犯，但不可以重复犯；4. 批评一定要接受，辱侮绝对不能接受。5.该说的要说，该哑的要哑，是一种聪明；7. 该干的要干，该退的要退，是一种睿智；8. 该显的要显，该藏的要藏，是一种境界。

从避风港出来这个大染缸，
无知天真早已不断在被抹煞着。。
慢慢的才能看透，
学到无需多虑而是认真活着
强势被拉进这黑白漩涡中兢兢抓紧坚持
是真难矣，红尘也。

惟有心境，越渴望那种平静。

拍拖就应该经历一下异地恋。
体会一下欣喜忧愁无从分享，
欢笑落泪不能拥抱。
隔着屏幕隔着电话隔着书信联系，
直到你几乎疯狂。
学会拒绝诱惑，
学会处理一个人的时间，
学会照顾自己……
也只有这样，在下一个拥抱，
乃至白头偕老，你才会感恩，
异地恋不仅是考验着对方的耐心，
更是考验了自己的认真。

Stop analyzing life. Just live it. Analysis is what makes it complicated.

Jesus: Hello. Did you call me?

Man: Called you? No. Who is this?

Jesus: This is Jesus. I heard your prayers. So I thought I will chat.

Man: I do pray. Just makes me feel good. I am actually busy now. I am in the midst of something.

Jesus: What are you busy at? Ants are busy too.

Man: Don’t know. But I can’t find free time. Life has become hectic. It’s rush hour all the time.

Jesus: Sure. Activity gets you busy. But productivity gets you results. Activity consumes time. Productivity frees it.

Man: I understand. But I still can’t figure out. By the way, I was not expecting YOU to buzz me on instant messaging chat.

Jesus: Well I wanted to resolve your fight for time, by giving you some clarity. In this net era, I wanted to reach you through the medium you are comfortable with.

Man: Tell me, why has life become complicated now?

Jesus: Stop analyzing life. Just live it. Analysis is what makes it complicated.

Man: why are we then constantly unhappy?

Jesus: Your today is the tomorrow that you worried about yesterday. You are worrying because you are analyzing. Worrying has become your habit. That’s why you are not happy.

Man: But how can we not worry when there is so much uncertainty?

Jesus: Uncertainty is inevitable, but worrying is optional.

Man: But then, there is so much pain due to uncertainty.

Jesus: Pain is inevitable, but suffering is optional.

Man: If suffering is optional, why do good people always suffer?

Jesus: Diamond cannot be polished without friction. Gold cannot be purified without fire. Good people go through trials, but don’t suffer. With that experience their life become better not bitter.

Man: You mean to say such experience is useful?

Jesus: Yes. In every term, Experience is a hard teacher. She gives the test first and the lessons afterwards.

Man: But still, why should we go through such tests? Why can’t we be free from problems?

Jesus: Problems are Purposeful Roadblocks Offering Beneficial Lessons (to) Enhance Mental Strength. Inner strength comes from struggle and endurance, not when you are free from problems.

Man: Frankly in the midst of so many problems, we don’t know where we are heading.

Jesus: If you look outside you will not know where you are heading. Look inside. Looking outside, you dream. Looking inside, you awaken. Eyes provide sight. Heart provides insight.

Man: Sometimes not succeeding fast seems to hurt more than moving in the right direction. What should I do?

Jesus: Success is a measure as decided by others. Satisfaction is a measure as decided by you. Knowing the road ahead is more satisfying than knowing you rode ahead. You work with the compass. Let others work with the clock.

Man: In tough times, how do you stay motivated?

Jesus: Always look at how far you have come rather than how far you have to go. Always count your blessing, not what you are missing.

Man: What surprises you about people?

Jesus: When they suffer they ask, “why me? When they prosper, they never ask “Why me” Everyone wishes to have truth on their side, but few want to be on the side of the truth.

Man: Sometimes I ask, who I am, why am I here. I can’t get the answer.

Jesus: Seek not to find who you are, but to determine who you want to be. Stop looking for a purpose as to why you are here. Create it. Life is not a process of discovery but a process of creation.

Man: How can I get the best out of life?

Jesus: Face your past without regret. Handle your present with confidence. Prepare for the future without fear.

Man: One last question. Sometimes I feel my prayers are not answered.

Jesus: There are no unanswered prayers. At times the answer is NO.

Man: Thank you for this wonderful chat. I am so happy to start the day with a new sense of inspiration.

Jesus: Well. Keep the faith and drop the fear. Don’t believe your doubts and doubt your beliefs. Life is a mystery to solve not a problem to resolve. Trust me. Life is wonderful if you know how to live.

Man: Thank you so much.

Jesus: You are always welcome. Have a good day my friend.

‎" Always remember, God's Word is the Word for YOU ".

爸爸妈妈的《谎言》-警醒着……

当你喝着可口的饮料时、

请想想爸爸妈妈喝的是什么。

当你穿着昂贵的衣服时、

请想想爸爸妈妈穿的是什么。

当你肆无忌惮花钱时、

请想想爸爸妈妈买东西砍价的样子。

爸爸妈妈为了我们付出了多少？

流了多少汗、为的只是让我们过的更好。

我们所拥有的一切都是爸爸妈妈的双手换来的、

无论是个在什么背景努力的爸爸妈妈、

请爱自己爸爸妈妈。。。

知足常乐，我总是知道。
可是必要时我却忘记了
真的真的很抱歉
每个人都知道的大道理
总需要社会不同的剧本去实践
乐观乐观更乐观
当想起还有许多人的不幸
又何须耿耿于心这小情绪
前进前进再前进
远大的梦想在前面。。
她，想通了又回来咯　
笑一笑，没甚么过不了。＝）

There's an old saying that goes, "When you enter the world, you cry and the world rejoices. Live your life so that when you leave the world, you rejoice and the world cries".
I think that happened today.
Rest in peace, Steve Jobs.